Invariably, when we fail in the mission or aim we have set for ourselves, we are looking for someone to blame.<\/p>\n
Apparently, going against others is much easier than dealing with ourselves …<\/p>\n
So, we immediately look for someone to blame: he did not believe me, she did not help me, it all happened because of him ..<\/p>\n
Looking for scapegoats never does any good. On the contrary, when we are full of bitterness, we are creating a hostile environment – not supportive!<\/p>\n
It’s time to take the “wheel” back to our hands – our lives are our sole responsibility!<\/p>\n
There’s no one to blame!<\/p>\n
However, that does not mean it’s time to beat ourselves up!<\/p>\n
The choice is always ours: I can wallow in anger and bitterness or say to myself, never mind, I can try again.<\/p>\n
You can always get out of the “box” …<\/p>\n
How many side does the box have?<\/p>\n
Seven.<\/p>\n
Really?<\/p>\n
There’s the right and left, back and front, up and down, and one inside.<\/p>\n
Where is the problem?<\/p>\n
The problem arises in the way I see the box and the meaning I give to what I see.<\/p>\n
When I go out of the box, it allows me to have a new observation about my situation, I create something new – the eighth side of the box.<\/p>\n
I myself create something that was not there before.<\/p>\n
Sometimes we need to let ourselves go, and just forget about everything, so we can get inspiration or enlightenment and remove ourselves from where we are, to a better place.<\/p>\n
You must let yourself go – only then can something new be created.<\/p>\n
When you can’t find a way out of a problem, you must allow yourself to forget about it ..<\/p>\n
As you become more stuck with the problem before you, so will you sink deeper and the solution never comes.<\/p>\n
Instead of focusing on the problem, get out of the box, look for solutions, that’s when salvation will come.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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