How To Create A Special Bond With The One You Love


How To Create A Special Bond With The One You Love

How To Create A Special Bond With The One You Love

How is it possible we suddenly fall out of love with someone we once we’re in love with? Is love like a switch we can turn on or off?

Love is a conscious choice we make and it is not based on feelings or emotions.

It seems the love that parents have for their children is as close to unconditional love as we can get without the help of the Creator’s love in our lives.

Why is it that we can still love our children when they misbehave but we don’t have the same tolerance for a significant other?

Only as a result of invested effort a person can experience true love in his or her life.

We cannot possibly uphold and maintain a loving relationship when we care only for ourselves, our needs, and desires. We must have a sincere interest in understanding and caring for the needs of others.

The words we use to communicate can result in either life or death; Kind words can uplift and elevate, while maliciousness can weaken and destroy us from within.

A person whom we have hurt or offended is harder to win back than a fortified city; therefore we should always think before we speak.

We should always remember that once words come out of our mouths we cannot take them back. Condemnation, blame, arguments, and disagreements separate us as if there’s a locked gate around our hearts.

The human spirit can endure a sick body, but who can bear a crushed spirit?

We must always be ready and willing to listen, learn, and open our eyes and hearts to what others are trying to communicate to us; When our loved ones become angry or irritated, instead of reacting to what was said, we should stop and ask ourselves, what does he/she really need from me right now?

Often times all that one needs is to just listen and be present, instead of defending our different points of view or placing blame.

A special bond doesn’t just happen. Once we are lucky enough to have love in our lives, we must handle it delicately with tremendous care as if it were a baby. We must treasure it in order to make it grow and evolve. That is how we create a loving and harmonious relationship.

Love comes as a result of concerted efforts to do good upon our loved ones. It can exist only by taking thoughtful action.

All of the above cannot materialize if you don’t firstly consider the following;

The way you treat yourself is the foundation of how you treat others; Love always begins with you!

You must love yourself first in order to love others. Love is a two-way street of giving and receiving.

You can’t give something you don’t have!

You can’t give away the gift of love unless you possess it first within yourself.

You can’t receive and accept love if you don’t feel deep inside that you deserve it.

In order to persist in your quest for true love, you must also find an unstoppable, ever-present emotional power source that keeps you going through the inevitable challenges and setbacks in romantic relationships.

Much love

Estee Levinson, Relationship Communication Strategist – Creating harmonious communication, one relationship at a time.

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